Supporting Family Mediation Week

Family Mediation Week 2021: day 5 – Principles underpinning family mediation.

Posted Posted in Children, Families, General

Lawyers were traditionally the first port of call when looking at divorce and separation.  Forward-thinking lawyers know that often (where there are no protection or safety concerns) they can step back and allow clients to sort out some of their future decisions themselves.  When talking about the day-to-day arrangements for children, the law offers little…

Family Mediation Week 2021: day 4 – What about Me?

Posted Posted in Children, Families, General

“What about me?” is a recent report of the FAMILY SOLUTIONS GROUP.  The report calls for greater support for those experiencing divorce and separation, especially children.  In particular, the need for:  Reframing family breakdown away from ‘justice’ language, towards an understanding of child welfare. A Framework of Support Services for Children and Young People – led…

Family Mediation Week 2021: day 2 – What actually happens in family mediation?

Posted Posted in Children, Families

Mediation can be misunderstood.  Like anything you try for the first time, it can take a while to understand and settle into.  So as part of this series of blogs in Family Mediation Week 2021  explanations to demystify and take away some of the fear.  Mediation is fundamentally about communication.  Exploring what is behind people’s…

Good Divorce Week 2020

Posted Posted in Families

Can you have a ‘good divorce’?  I sit slightly uncomfortably with the phrase, but it is true that, done in the right way, a divorce doesn’t have to be as bad as you think. Good Divorce Week is an annual campaign to promote constructive ways forward for anyone separating or divorcing.  Organised by Resolution, this…

What is a MIAM?

Posted Posted in Families, General

In a world that often seems binary, a new divide; those who know what a MIAM is and those who say, “A what?” whilst screwing up their face. On behalf of mediators everywhere – our apology.  We know it’s a weird word (not even a word but an acronym) and we know it doesn’t exactly…

A day in the office

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A day at the office – how the mediation world has come online. Part of being able to take the leap to a new mediation business has been the increased use of mediation online.  Previously mediation online was reserved for necessity and by exception, e.g. someone based in another country.  But, like so many other things, mediation has…

How it all began …

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The arrival of my new business has been expedited by the ‘pandemic push’.  Covid has necessitated change in so many aspects of our lives, both at home and at work (if there is even any distinction between the two anymore).  Covid has been tragic, horrendous, ruinous, and frustrating – yes, all of that.  And continuing… But there has been opportunity too.  I had this shared with me; when written in Chinese, the word…